My 17 Favorite Books

Different books have meant different things to me in my life, but these books  (in no particular order) are my very favorite.

Mother-daughter relationships are complicated and beautiful. This tells the stories of 3 generations of women during WWII and I am charmed by it every time.

Jeannette Walls tells the story of her difficult childhood without whining and complaining, and if anyone has earned the right-it's her.

Such a great metaphor for life and love.

Harry Potter=book perfection.

It is beautifully written with wit and heart and tells the love story of a woman falling in love with a child.  Made me happy to be a mom.

Abuse, racism, and justice all told from the perspective of a child.  Literary genius.

Each chapter is told from the perspective of a different member of a missionary family in 1959 in the Belgian Congo.  If you have never read it, you really should.

A smartly funny fairy-tale satire. Don't skip the glossary at the back-it's the best part. 

Best coming of age story EVER! If you've read it, the part about the "bed of roses" makes me cry every time:)

Cinderella story in the pioneer west-it makes me cry too. Every little girl should be read this book aloud.

The story of how a mother raised 10 kids on 25 words or less.

How a senior devil teaches a junior devil the art of temptation.

Ever wonder how one of the most civilized and cultured countries readily followed Hitler?  This book, told from the perspective of a young dwarf, answers that question.

Coming of age tale set in 1687 Connecticut.

White girl writes about the lives of the black "help" in 1962 Jackson, Mississippi and it is amazing.

 While searching for their missing father, children learn how to "wrinkle time" so they can travel through space and time.

The grandfather of all Dystopian literature. 

There's my list-what's yours?

Marriage Therapy

Pre-run: We joke that we look like the "before" models of an Adidas campaign. 

A little over a year ago, a friend invited us to join 5 other couples in running a relay marathon (Beach to Bay in Corpus, Christi) and so we started running together for the first time.   It's been great (except for the actual running part).  We have been surprised by the unexpected benefits of running together as a couple and now refer to our weekly runs as "marriage therapy". 

I googled it, but I couldn't find any studies of how running strengthened marriages, but here's what I've learned.  

1.  Running is awful (anyone who says otherwise is a big fat liar), and doing awful things together brings you closer and makes you feel more united.  

2.  It provides a great uninterrupted chance to chat.  

3. Taking care of yourself, is another way of telling your spouse you love them.  

4. You always feel better when it's over.

Self portrait-Action Shot

The race was last Saturday, and it was fun ( I don't know why, but it was).  We ran 4.69 miles in 47 minutes and 12 seconds. We play a little game where we give ourselves a point for every person we pass, and lose one for every person that passes us.  Our goal was 50 and we finished with 61 points!  It was also a bazillion degrees and neither of us collapsed from heat exhaustion, so we're calling it a win. 

Post run: I love this group of people!!!!!! 

 In lieu of scientific studies, here are 6 couples (5 of which hate running) that would all say running together makes our marriages stronger.  

Do you run together?

Good-bye Party-There's No Place Like Home

I am lucky enough to work with a group of ladies at church, whose job is to put on a monthly activity for the rest of the ladies at church.  Since we have 7 ladies moving this summer, we decided to do a good-bye dinner.  Because everything is better w/ a theme we chose Wizard of Oz.

Here's what a group of amazing women can do with a guest list of 40 women and a budget of $100.

Did you know that after Dorothy went back to Kansas, the Tin Man opened up a potato bar?  

I failed to get a picture of the tin-foil wrapped baked-potatoes and the "toronado" (sour cream).  I also made a "Great and Wonderful Salad (aka spinach salad) that also didn't get photographed.  I dug through the toolbox to find spare bolts and screws to make the little signs.    We also had melted witch punch made my Amber at Mule and Nag.  (We normally call it Yoda Soda at my house full of boys).

It is a tragedy of epic proportions that I didn't snap another pick of the dessert table fully loaded with the full rainbow of 500 cupcakes.  We had orange creamsicle, key lime, pina colada, PB chocolate, and red velvet -all amazing.

I did manage to snap a pic of the "table legs" I stole from here. The wicked witch is apparently having some water retention issues.

 I made them from an old pair of shoes I sprayed w/ glitter paint and old soccer socks that I stuffed w/ grocery bags and striped white.

I don't know if these turned out exactly as I envisioned, but we here's our table decor spotlighting HEART, BRAINS, and COURAGE.

I did about a 2 minute devotional on the things I've learned from the Wizard of Oz:

It’s better to be a good witch than a bad witch

Hearts will never be practical until they can be made unbreakable

 There’s no place like home (our eternal home).

Do not confuse courage with wisdom.

Some people without brains do an awful lot of talking, don’t they?

That all it takes is one little girl to destroy wickedness.

You’ve always had the power to find your way home.

And finally,

A heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others.

Life is a journey, and just like in the movie, it is only possible with the help of good friends as they share their brains, courage, and mostly their hearts with us. 

Ahead of time, we assigned someone to spotlight each lady that was moving and how she had been an example of courage, heart, and brains.  There may have been a few tears.

We gave them each a twix bar covered w/ the wrappers that I made: (pdf here)

To finish off the night 2 woman sang the song "For Good" from Wicked and everyone got to leave w/ a bookmark with the lyrics.

It was an OZ-SOME night!

What I'm Reading Wednesdays-Nothing Good

It was  a hectic week and so I just went for something mindless.  They also ended up being not great.

London is a girl who only "remembers" the future.  Her brain resets each night and anything she did not write down is lost to her.  The concept was a little hard to wrap my brain around and so the book lost some points there.  My biggest complaint is that it just stops just about the point the big mystery is going to be revealed.

2 out of 5 stars   

Ronnie is forced to leave New York and spend the summer in North Carolina with her father.  She spends the summer protecting an endangered turtle's nest and falling in love with a local boy.  It's about as good as you'd expect a book written especially with Miley Cyrus in mind.  

Anyone see the movie?  

3 1/2 out of 5 stars

So now I'm looking for something at least 4 stars.  Suggestions?

Choffy

Have you ever heard of Choffy?  My good friend Susan is a distributor and I will let her tell you all about it:

Looking for a healthy and delicious chocolate drink?

Healthful and simply delicious Choffy is something for you to sip into! Choffy is 100% ground and roasted cacao beans.

I found Choffy this summer when I was looking for a "soda in the morning alternative". It has 20 calories, 3 carb, 0 sugars, 0 fats, and 0 chemicals. Choffy has Theobromine which is the gentle long lasting stimulant that gives you a lift without the crash and addiction of caffeine. Choffy is full of antioxidants; one 8 oz cup has as much as 2 cups of bluberries! I brew my morning cup of "cho" by boiling water, steeping the grounds in a french press for 10 minutes, and then adding creamer and sugar. I also enjoy Choffy after dinner when I want to avoid a calorie filled chocolate dessert. 

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What I'm Reading Wednesday's-The Lunar Chronicles

When I tried to describe the plot of these to my husband, it  sounded so ridiculous, he thought I was kidding, but here it is:

Cinder is a young mechanical protege cyborg living in post-apocalyptic Beijing.   She meets the handsome prince when he asks for his help repairing his android.  Of course, there is a little romance and he even invites her to attend the royal ball. 

Scarlet is a young women trying to find her missing grandmother with the help of a man named Wolf in the same post-apocalyptic world as Cinder, but in France.

I told you they sounded ridiculous, but I actually really enjoyed them both and am looking forward to the next one.  I love Meyer's retelling of the classic story tales of Cinderella and Little Red Riding Hood, and it was fun to see how she would interpret various aspects of the story.  They won't change your life, but are lots of fun.

Mommy Warning: Fairly clean PG rated

4 out of 5 stars

Easiest way ever to "frost" a cupcake

My daughter invited about 20 of her closest friends over to celebrate her 15th b-day.  Since she didn't invite boys, I knew those girls would eat A LOT!

Martha Stewart made hers homemade, but I just used a box mix.  After I baked the cupcakes, I stuck a marshmallow on top of each and stuck them under the broiler for 1-2 minutes.  I used the back of spoon to flatten them.

I may never frost another cupcake again.  Thanks Martha:)